3 Ways a Love Reading Can Help You

The first question many clients ask is, “Can I find love?” 

The quick answer is “Yes!” If you want it, you CAN find love. This article is written to help you move in that direction.  A love reading can move things faster toward your goal.

First of all, finding love in a love reading is finding an energetic signature. 

Since everything is energy, love definitely has its own signature. Actually, it is THE signature. Is it any wonder we…well…love it? The warmth, peace, and positive connection to source energy is the closest we have to being on the other side, unencumbered.  It’s all around us. It is all that is. So, logically, if love is all that is, we just need to tune in to the signature of it. A love reading can help you attune to where you are within the love vibration.

“So….how does one tune in to falling in love? 

Think of the phrase “falling in love.” It’s very accurate. Engergetically, we move into a love vibration very easily. Have you ever met someone and you just loved them? Romantically or not, you just adored them. That stranger. That grandbaby. That lover. When you connect to that love vibration it is a high feeling. That makes so much sense! It connects to the purist and highest form of who we are. It is joining your source which is nothing but the love vibration, It feels so good because it is our natural form. Love. 

Often, once we make that great connection, we move to another step. We move our attention to wanting that love vibration all the time. Who wouldn’t? Actually, it is that vibration from which we come. It truly is our happy place. I’ve felt it, and the light that came in my body was incredible. For some, it can be like lightening!

Yet, within the length of a thought, I shifted my gaze to what I thought created that love vibration. I think of one instance when I looked to a person who made me feel like energy was shooting out of the top of my head. I wanted that person to stay in my gaze because I believed that was the genesis of my vibrations. My thought was that I wanted that person around all the time, so I could feel that love. 

How misled I was.

Rather than holding the vibration of love and calming my thoughts, I shifted my focus. I immediately felt my vibration fall (yes, it felt like falling) to wanting, desiring. Painful. I had fallen from my love vibration. It literally felt like I fell off of a high place. 

In this sense, we do “fall” in love. 

If we could stay in the love vibration we would not feel the fall. Yet, that takes practice, and self development. Many of us, self included, prefer to take the easy way to the love vibration. That person. That situation. That catalyst. If I hold on to it, I will hold the vibration. It doesn’t work that way. A love reading can help you identify where you are holding on to something (if you are) that is impeding your wants and desires from coming forward

Second, there is good news…actually great news.

That “fall” feeling is an indicator, a barometer. That lower vibration of want and desire is letting you know you have some room for development. It is giving you a clear pathway for development of your higher self. You now have a goal. The goal is to develop your love vibration until you can create it without that catalyst

Spirit stepped in and has given me a confirmation message as I’m writing this article. I got up to speak to my son and muted a youtube video that I was partially listening to as I wrote. When I went to sit back down, I unmuted and the next words I heard were, “The love that you actually need from other things, other people’s approvals…people only can reflect what you can give to yourself.” How great is that?! Spirit will always confirm when you are on the right path if you will just listen. “People only can reflect what you give to yourself.”

So, begin…

Third, find ways every day to love yourself.  A love reading helps you do that.

Love readings can help you identify where you are not loving yourself. And a good reader can give you the right kind of homework to help you love yourself.

Kids know how to do this! Watch a kiddo love themselves. Go for your opinion on something instead of someone else’s. Give yourself that extra sleep. Allow yourself to not wash that dish. Whatever it is that can make you love yourself, do it. Find something at least once a day to newly love yourself. Think about what you can do to put yourself first.

As a teacher, it was difficult for me to hold myself in the love vibration. Children constantly wanted my attention and my help. Duties associated with my job took whatever was left of my energy. Finally, one day, I said to myself, “I’m not going to the lunchroom, anymore.” Why? It was a searing hot melting pot of noise and angst. I hated going in there. Especially as an empath, the extra noise and people was soul sucking. Feeling all those feelings. Being aware of all those opinions.

I knew there would be disdain for my lack of attention to the assigned duty. I very, very clearly heard from my guide, “That’s not your problem.” That was right. Another person’s opinion was really not my problem. And from that moment, I had peace, a byproduct of self love. Eureka!! I realized then I needed to do whatever I could to keep or find my peace. That was self love for me. 

I also quit giving too much of myself, answering every question immediately, chatting with negative people, etc. Peace ensued. I may not have been the most popular teacher in the hallway, but I know I was the happiest.

Loving yourself is a habit to get used to.. If you’ve grown up in a habit of feeling bad in order to feel worthy, find ways to revel in you. Abraham Hicks, for example, has many, many rampages of self love that are free on Youtube. What if you just listened to one every morning?

During that time, I was also dating. One lovely man after another, but none were a soulful match. Most wanted me for sex or wanted just a pen pal. I knew I was attracting them based on where my vibration was. Once I started finding all the ways love could be in my life, a higher quality of men started seeing me. I also stopped just wanting attention because I was giving myself quality attention. It was a win/win. A love reading can give you a direction to move in to get you in a great dating frame of mind, so every date, meeting, etc. can be a win/win for you.

One of my favorite “love vibration” generators is Abraham Hicks. That group of entities supports many YouTube channels with a plethora of videos and audios that can help you regularly find that love vibration. Look for Rampages of Love that are published with many YouTubers.

Another point…a love reading doesn’t have to be romantic. It can help you in your pursuit of love for most any relationship. One client I’ve read for had a wonderful man in her life, but she struggled with Mother Love. We looked at her need for motherly validation and helped her walk a path that released that feeling. Now, she is productive and pursuing becoming a medium. Getting past that issue freed her to become her better, higher, more happy self.

Peace, Ya’ll! Need a Love Reading? Click to schedule with Leah