Is Your Partner a Soulmate? 5 Easy Ways to Tell
According to Psychology Today, a soulmate is someone with whom you have a profound connection that defies explanation. Is your partner a soulmate? Possibly, but a soulmate can also be an acquaintance, a family member, or a work bestie.
Is Your Partner a Soulmate? You can talk about anything!
Nothing is off limits! I met one of my soulmates as a work bestie. She and I were not remotely romantically interested in each other, but we still deeply love each other. For a while, we taught at the same school. I remember just knowing that I needed to get to know her.
We didn’t really get acquainted for at least seven to eight years. Then, suddenly, we were an energetic match. We both remember the one time we went to a winery and had the time of our lives. To me, that was the beginning of living our soulmate partnership. We realized we could be completely ourselves with no reservations.
Many, many times we just shared a look or a glance and knew what the other was thinking!
Is your partner a soulmate? The connection is just different and long-lasting.
This is not a sudden lustful attraction. Lust can be wonderful, and it can feel like a soulmate connection because of its intensity. Give it time. If it is just lust, it will fade. A soulmate connection is one you just can’t stop for any reason. Even if you don’t stay together, they are an impetus in your life for a long time. The lessons you learn from that connection continue over your lifetime.
This is chemistry that continues–good and bad. Chemistry doesn’t make a partner a soulmate, but it is always there with a soulmate.
Is your partner a soulmate? You can be your authentic self.
There is no judgment here. You are allowed to be your authentic self at all times, and you do not fear rejection. Remember, a partner can also be a friend, also. Maybe your work bestie is a partner for you at work who helps you through your day. Also, a soulmate is great at bringing out your best self…maybe the self you didn’t even know you had.
I’ve had two experiences with soulmates at work. One was my best friend, whom I didn’t meet until I was in my late forties. The other was a gentleman I later became involved with after he left my workplace. Our connection was unmistakable, but we were both married at the time. Later, after my husband’s death and his divorce, we were able to kindle our soulmate relationship. It has continued to gratify and uplift both of us.
Is your partner a soulmate? Quality time is just fine!
With a soulmate, time together doesn’t need to be fancy or full in any way. You can just be together and feel better. You don’t have to have the attention of the other person because you are both in tune with each other. You just feel better being around each other.
If your soulmate is a lover, you may not be able to keep your hands off each other in some way. But when the relationship matures, you can exist near each other and feel better just for being close.
Is your partner a soulmate? Have you lost interest in other possible partners?
Have you noticed that you have no other interest in other men or women? I know that with my work bestie, I didn’t care if I socialized with anyone else. I was happy just to go to work and see her. When she left, I grieved a loss even though I was very happy for her advancement. Work was never quite the same again.
Conclusion
Many of us wonder if a connection is a soulmate, and it is true that we will have many of them over a lifetime. Each of them is here to teach us something and help us advance
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