10 Things I Wish I’d Known as a Child Psychic Medium

Oh, the things I would sit my younger child psychic medium self down to chat about if I could go back in time. I would gently share the wisdom that comes from a lifetime of experience as a psychic medium. The journey to embracing my unique gifts and abilities has been filled with wonder, laughter, challenges, and personal growth for sure. For those of you navigating or know someone navigating a similar path —or even those curious about this life —these are 10 things I wish I’d known as a child psychic medium.

1. You’re Not Crazy, You’re Gifted

When you’re young and different, and no one else seems to be sensing the things you are, it’s easy to feel isolated or wonder if you’re crazy. But your clairvoyance, clairaudience, and clairsentience are amazing tools that allow you to connect to the unseen world. You are not “weird”—you are extraordinary, and your abilities are here to help others. I promise you’ll embrace it in time, and Mom will introduce you to Beth Layne, who you’ll have a consultation with to figure out your gifts, which will help you gain confidence and understanding.

2. Trust Your Intuition, It’s Your Superpower

As a psychic medium, intuition is your compass. Whether it’s a subtle feeling, a knowing, or a whisper from the other side, trust it. Your inner voice will guide you in the right direction, even when the world doesn’t make sense. When you learn to trust it, this knowing will keep you out of all types of sticky/potentially dangerous situations. I’ve definitely avoided a head-on collision via a one-way street in San Francisco listening to it. It will not steer you wrong!

3. You Are Not Alone in This

There are so many others like you, love. Seek out mentors, books, and metaphysical communities that nurture your abilities. Finding people who understand what you’re experiencing will be life-changing and reassuring. You also create a tight circle of friends who are super fascinated by your experiences, and some have their own abilities. They will often ask if you see spirits in their houses; you can tell them the truth. Mom is and will always be your biggest supporter. Remember, she is going to introduce you to Beth Lanye!

4. Boundaries Are Essential

As a psychic medium, it’s easy to absorb other people’s emotions and energies. You know how you get really tired around certain people after a while? Some of them are called energy vampires and are the absolute worst. Stay clear of them as best you can. It would work to your advantage to learn to protect yourself energetically with boundaries, grounding techniques, and clearing practices. Those crystals Mom lets us pick out at the bookstore? Make sure you get some dark crystals next time; they will help. It’s okay to say “no” when prioritizing your well-being. “No” is a complete sentence and should be respected by those with bodies and without.

5. Fear Is the Greatest Block to Your Gifts

The unknown can be scary, especially when you start seeing or hearing things others can’t. Remember, fear only blocks your abilities. Lean into trust and ask for help from your spirit guides when things feel overwhelming. They want to help you and wait for you to ask for their assistance. When you’re in your 20s, you will see two angels in two different states. It’s going to blow. Your. Mind. Remember to keep your hands on the car’s wheel the second time.

6. Your Gifts Will Grow Stronger Over Time

It’s okay not to understand everything right away; you have time to learn about it all. You are a psychic, but your Mediumship gift is pretty damn strong right now and will only gain strength as time passes. Sometimes, new abilities just show up out of the blue. I mean, we have quite a few more of The Clairs (psychic abilities) now. Like any skill, your psychic abilities and know-how will strengthen with practice and patience. Honor the process, and don’t rush your development. Take. Your.Time.

7. You Don’t Have to Prove Yourself to Anyone

Not everyone will believe in your abilities, and that’s okay. You are not here to convince anyone. Focus on using your gifts for healing, connection, and light; the right people will recognize your value. The lessons will be challenging in our late 20s to early 30s, but I promise you, the situations you find yourself in will teach you a tremendous amount. You’re going to be just fine.

8. Self-Care Is Non-Negotiable

Being a psychic medium can be energetically draining. There will be days when you just want to stay in your energetically cleansed house, which is perfectly ok because that is exactly what we need. Make time for self-care, whether it’s meditation, nature walks, journaling, or simply rest. A well-nurtured soul is powerful; you can’t pour from an empty cup. Do your best to keep that cup full. Driving down the coast with an excellent playlist and/or hiking amongst the trees does wonders.

9. Spirit Wants to Help You, Not Scare You

As a child, seeing or hearing spirits can feel unsettling. I mean, we encountered two spirits the same night we moved into the new family home, and another appeared in the living room not too long after. Remember, most spirits come from a place of love and want to help, not harm. Yes, they may startle you and continue to do so when you’re not expecting them, but you are safe, protected, and supported by the spiritual realm. Spirit, your guides, and the Angels all have your back.

10. You Have a Purpose

Your abilities are not random but part of your soul’s purpose. We happened to be here for rescue, which means we are here to help. Whether you use them to help others heal, connect with loved ones who have passed, or bring comfort, know that you are fulfilling a divine calling to help humanity. When you’re comfortable and ready, the ways in which you can go about sharing your abilities are endless.

Embracing Your Path as a Psychic Medium

To my child self and anyone walking this unique path: You are not alone. Embrace your psychic gifts, trust the journey, and remember that being a child psychic medium is not just about seeing beyond the veil—it’s about living a life filled with deeper meaning, connection, and purpose. You’ve got this, and you also have an entire community of people wanting to encourage and embrace you for precisely who you are.

Ready to find out more about your gifts or get a reading? Let’s chat, and if you feel like you or someone you know has gifts, Beth Layne can help! On social media? Follow me on TikTok!