Spiritual Counseling In Modern Times: Why People Tell Me Their Life Story In The Produce Section

People imagine spiritual counseling as a whole setup. A calm room. A candle. Maybe incense drifting around. They picture someone booking a session, sitting down intentionally, ready to talk.

And it can be…but that’s not always the case.

Modern spiritual counseling? It’s everywhere.

It happens in the street.
At the stoplight.
Waiting in line.

Or when I’m minding my business in the produce section and someone decides today is the day they tell me everything their spirit has been holding onto for five years.

I don’t invite it.
I don’t initiate it.
My energy just does what it does.

People today are overwhelmed and under-supported

Everyone is carrying something heavy. Everyone feels rushed. Everyone is tired. There is no quiet. No pause. No room for emotions to land. So when people feel grounded, open energy, they move toward it without even knowing why.

It’s instinct.
It’s recognition.
It’s spiritual GPS.

I do spiritual counseling daily without even being in session

This is my normal.
I walk through the world and people walk right toward me.

But sometimes I walk toward them first. I’ll see someone struggling to reach something on the top shelf and I’ll offer help because I’m tall and it takes me two seconds. Or someone is comparing products, clearly overwhelmed, and I just grab what I came for. They watch me. They ask why I picked that one. And right when I answer… boom.

The portal opens.
A session begins.
And suddenly we’re talking about life choices, clarity, motherhood, heartbreak, dreams, or the thing they have been avoiding for months.

It looks like a casual moment.
But the spirit work behind it is never casual.

The wine aisle and the cleanser aisle are apparently sacred ground

For reasons unknown to science but very clear to spirit, peoplecome to me the most in two places:

the wine aisle
and
the household cleanser aisle.

I didn’t notice it at first.
But after the fifteenth time someone told me their entire relationship timeline while I was holding a bottle of Pinot Noir, I had to laugh.

And the cleanser aisle?
People will pour out their soul right next to bleach and disinfectant like we are in a healing circle.

Is it a coincidence?
I honestly don’t know.
But I do think something about being surrounded by things that either clean you up or calm you down makes people finally let go.

Wine aisle = “I’m tired.”
Cleanser aisle = “I’m trying to get my life together.”
Me in the middle = “Ok spirit… I see what you’re doing.”

There has to be a portal in those aisles.
Something about Bubbles and Clorox unlocks people’s throat chakra.
Folks will stand next to me comparing detergents and suddenly confess a secret they haven’t even told God with their chest yet. I’m shocked every time, but I listen and don’t judge.

I am just trying to buy a few groceries.
Spirit is like, “Help them real quick.”

And so I do.

Modern spiritual counseling blends intuition and real life grounding

This work isn’t only “messages from the other side,” although that happens.
It’s also clarity.
It’s perspective.
It’s giving someone the truth they needed but couldn’t say out loud yet.
It’s catching the thread in their story and handing it back gently.

It’s a mix of:

• intuition
• channeling
• emotional intelligence
• experience
• humor
• compassion
• and a whole lot of truth

People don’t need spiritual performance. They need spiritual presence.

Why people talk to me without hesitation

Because I don’t judge.
Because my energy is grounding.
Because I can hear what they aren’t saying.
Because I tell the truth clearly.
Because their spirit feels seen before they even speak.

People can feel when a person carries clarity.
They move toward it the way people move toward warmth.

They don’t know why.
But they know they’re safe.

There is psychology behind this, too. Psychology Today explains why humans often trust and open up to strangers even when it does not seem logical. Their article puts language to something I see every day.

Spiritual counseling today is human connection with spiritual depth

It doesn’t always look ceremonial.
Sometimes it looks like a vulnerable moment with a stranger who never planned to say that out loud.

But what’s happening internally is profound.

People release.
People remember themselves.
People breathe deeper than they have all week.

That is spiritual counseling in modern times.
It’s everyday humanity meeting spiritual truth in the wild.

A closing note

If you’re reading this and thinking, “I probably need a real session,” then you do.

My intuitive clarity sessions under Dafina Ama hold the same energy that strangers feel… but with intention, protection, and depth.

You can book here .

Because you deserve clarity on purpose.
Not just in aisle seven.